Being too young to have lived through the fabled Baby Boom of my parents’ era, I, of course, have no idea how it seemed to those young, newly married couples just starting their families. These days, more than ever, I wonder if they realized that they were helping to spur on the “Baby Boom,” making history. I wonder if they had any idea that, as my peers and I are stuck with the nickname of “Generation X” (whatever that’s supposed to mean), they will, until the end of time as we know it, be known as the “Baby Boomers.”

I’ve never done any research into the deeper reasons (or the shallower ones, for that matter) for the apparently-sudden increase in population, nor do I intend to. None of that interests me in the slightest. My only curiosity lies in the presence or absence of awareness among the many parents of the day. In reality, even that curiosity—the little bit I have right now—will probably be short lived. In the meantime, though, I wonder…. Did those young and older couples have any idea that doing the normal, newly-married, ready-to-be-parents thing was making history? Maybe it’s a goofy question, but this is the way my mind works.

It seems as though there are a whole lot of babies being born, these days. It’s not just people my age, either. Granted, many of my peers are starting and expanding their families, but there are even more children being born to parents younger than I, or so it seems to me, and with the advances in birth control, there are plenty of people older than I who are just getting started, too. In considering the many babies being announced all around me, I’m stuck considering this question: Are we in the middle of another baby boom? It could be merely that I just never paid so much attention to the quantity of babies.

After all, up until three years ago, I was an unattached, single gal trying to decide if I really wanted to move away from SUVs and if I could afford a Cooper Mini. The only babies that really caught my attention were my nephews, and there are only two of them. Now, though, having relatively enjoyed nine months of pregnancy and survived twenty-two hours of back labor and eventual delivery, I’m a whole lot more aware of babies (and their mothers, especially), and I’m noticing that there are a lot of them to notice.

It doesn’t really matter, I suppose, but I’m just curious—do people making history realize that they’re making history? Sure, the presidents and generals probably do (or at least suspect so), but what about the rest of us commoners? The general public is just as much a part of history, even if our daily actions are rarely recorded in the history books. So, who knows? Maybe all of us who are in the midst of building families are also making history (like Adam and Eve, Noah and his wife, Abraham and Sarah, the Baby Boomers…)!

Posted in Pregnancy Stories on Sep 30th, 2008, 7:55 am by kbarr     

Abortion Education in Venice, Florida

Abortion is a permanent thing. Once a mother undergoes the surgical procedure, there’s no opportunity for changing her mind. She can’t go back and try again, and this is one of those times that saying “I’m sorry” won’t fix it. If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy in Venice, Florida, and you’re considering an abortion, make sure you know the facts—all of them—before you make a decision that will have lifelong consequences.

Sometimes, an abortion will happen naturally, in the course of the pregnancy. In such a case, the death of the “embryo” or “fetus” is called a miscarriage. The more common use of the word abortion is in referring to that death as the direct result of one of many possible surgical procedures. What may not be quite as familiar as the concept is the fact that there are many different kinds of abortions. A major deciding factor in which procedure is used is the progress of the pregnancy, how long it has been since the first day of the mother’s last menstrual period.

With names like Mifepristone, Suction Curettage, Methotrexate, and Intrauterine Cranial Decompression, just trying to understand what, exactly, it is that you’re considering can seem more daunting than anything else in this whole mess. If you’re scared and on the verge of panic, looking at the abortion options in Nokomis, contact the folks at Pregnancy Solutions for some help. They want to help you make sure you’re fully aware of all the options before you make any decisions. With no financial interest in your decision, you can trust them to explain all your options, from abortion to adoption to parenting.

You may have heard of the Morning-After Pill, or Plan B. Maybe you have also heard of another pill—RU486. Both are pills, yes, but they’re not the same—they don’t work the same way. It’s hard to say how clearly the people who sell the pills will explain the differences, and picking the wrong pill could have disastrous results. Testimonies show that not every abortion clinic fully explains what’s going on before, during, and after the procedure. Don’t get caught in something you don’t really want, just because you didn’t know what was going on.

The staff and volunteers at Pregnancy Solutions offer education as one of their main services, but they also offer free pregnancy tests in Venice, at their facility, and free ultrasounds. Besides giving you information, they’re there to listen. Many of the staff have been where you are, and they want you to be fully prepared for the decisions you have lying ahead of you.

You may feel very alone, but you’re not. There are many women who have been where you are, and there are many more people who want to help you. They want to prepare you to make a decision that you understand, a decision that you won’t regret. For pregnancy help in Venice, Florida, call, email, or visit the folks at Pregnancy Solutions, on Tamiami Trail South.

Posted in Pregnancy Services on Jul 18th, 2008, 8:14 pm by kbarr     

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